Men Vs. Sex Toys in New York
An Account of Why Some Men are Afraid of Them and how to turn fear into pleasure.
Contrary to the “front” put up by most men, men are very emotional. Although they dare never utter the words, some men are afraid of their ladies using sex toys. I recently conducted a survey of 30 random men at a Dunkin Donuts in Yonkers, NY,. I asked these men if they were afraid of using sexual enhancing devices on their lovers. 50% said yes, and listed the following two reasons. 1) Vibrators could potentially pleasure their lover more than they can. 2) They worry that the vibrator will replace them. Thus, men view sex toys as a threat! This could not be farther from the truth. The sex toy is designed to enhance; not destroy.
The threat becomes vocalized when actually in an adult sex toy store. One day while at the Bronx location of Romantic Depot, a couple walked in and started shopping. While our female sales associate was attempting to understand the ladies wants and needs, the man roars, “My boo doesn't need any adult toys! All she needs is in my Johnson!” This is not an isolated incident. This happens daily at sex shops in the US.
Here is a question for men. Guys, do you masturbate? Of course you do! Here is a secret, so do women. In fact, some women masturbate more than men do! So, think about this, How about merging the two? Everyone can agree that, EVERYONE deserves to have great sex.
Men, accept it, your penis cannot vibrate and you are not born with rabbit ear clitoral stimulators. Studies conducted have shown that, 50-70% of women cannot have an orgasm with the typical “in and out” motion. Don't get it wrong, there are plenty of women who have great orgasms from G-spot stimulation. But, a majority of women achieve orgasms through clit stimulation. This is where a bullet or egg vibrator can assist females. You can essentially become a human “rabbit”. (The rabbit is a dual vibrator with a shaft designed for vaginal penetration and an attached extension for clitoral stimulation).
Ok, I hear you! You're one of those guys that doesn't want to have sex toys touch him and/or around his body. You're way too macho for that. How about watching your lady pleasure herself? I'm certain most men watched a porn video at some point. (That's probably why your computer has so many viruses. Lol) Watching your lady pleasure herself is erotic, sensual and educational! By merely watching, you can learn how your lady prefers to be pleasured; and later recreate those motions and sexual positions.
A few of the 30 randomly surveyed men said, they did not have a problem with erotic toys; they just didn't want something bigger than their junk. I'm not going to get into debating Size vs. Skill factor. Everyone has a different answer. However, here's something to think about, if your lover didn't love your the size and shape of your penis, why would they be with you in the first place? Contrary to what men think that bigger is always better, MOST women who purchase adult novelties, purchase A) external vibrators. Or B) buy vibrators no bigger than 6 inches. Remember, women give birth to children, that’s a big one. Its not fun for us! Don't believe me? Ask your lover how much physical pleasure she had giving birth! Lets also not forget that we as women are highly emotional! We crave the emotions and bonding that sex provides. Its not solely physical pleasure. Women loved to be desired. (Just like men do). So, having a real erect penis inside us, lets us know we are desired. That’s something NO sex toy could ever do.
Finally, there is a plethora of sex toys out there that are designed for COUPLES to use TOGETHER! For example, when the We-Vibe launched in 2008, it was the first vibrator invented and designed to be worn while making love! 5 years have passed since then, and adult toy manufacturers have emulated and surpassed the original We-Vibe design.
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The Best Adult Stores to Buy Sex Toys in
New York
Romantic Depot Bronx NYC
*The largest sex shop in the New York area.Address: 3703 Provost Ave Bronx NY 10466 United States
(718) 515-6969
Hours: Sunday – Thursday 10am – 12:00am
Friday and Saturday 10am – 1:00am
Directions:
*From all NYC 5 Boroughs Manhattan, Quuens, Brooklyn, Bronx. Staten Island & Long Island
When driving North on I-95 from NYC take Exit 13. Make left onto Conner Street. Stay straight, 2 blocks on left after traffic light by Mcdonald's.
*From Westchester and Connecticut
When driving South on I-95 from Westchester County take Exit 13. Go 1/4 mile - Conner Street Turns into Provost Avenue.
*Bus
Nearest Bus Stop BX 16 BX 36 Boston Post Rd & Conner Street Corner only 1 Block Away!
*Subway
Nearest Transit Station is Only 1.5 Blocks Away, Dyre Avenue take the 5 Train.
Parking Lot and Ample Street Parking is Available.
Romantic Depot Westchester County
Address: 6 Frontage Street Elmsford NY 10523 United States
Phone: (914) 345-8522
Hours: Sunday – Thursday 10am – 12:00am
Friday and Saturday 10am – 1am
Directions:
Minutes from Yonkers, White Plains, Brewster, Ossining and Greenwich, CT.
Located off Route 9a on the NYS Thruway 287 East entrance ramp.
Romantic Depot Rockland CountyAddress: 301 NY - 59 West Nyack NY 10994 United States
(845) 353-0180
Hours: Sunday – Thursday 10am – 12:00am
Friday and Saturday 10am– 1am
Directions:
Located on Route 59 east directly across from the Palisades Center Mall The entrance is in the rear.
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